I work in television news. During the marathon of wall-to-wall coverage of the biggest news event we'll ever witness, sleep was hard to come by. Few of us wanted to take a break since the brave men and women at Ground Zero were not stopping their work either. After all, we were not providing a fraction of the service, making a fraction of the sacrifice, toiling through a fraction of the heartache they were.
Eventually, though, my time came. It was late Wednesday afternoon, September 12th, around 4:30. My executive producer took one look at me as I came out of the control room for a food break and said, "You need to sleep." He gave me a key to one of the hotel rooms the station had reserved a block away, and ordered me to come back the next morning. (Yeah, right.)
I fought but relented. I went. I showered. I slept, for about an hour and a half. When I woke up, I had no idea where I was, what time it was, or what day it was. I had left the television on and some local political leaders were holding a news conference at Ground Zero.
As as I slowly crept into consciousness, still not knowing the date/time/place, the first thing to come into focus was who was speaking: Senator Chuck Schumer. He was speaking about the resiliency, the compassion, the endurance of the city, its people, the country.
And it finally hit me.
I was no longer racing to get into the city and into work, only to be thwarted at every entry by the fortress that had been made of it. I was no longer rushing to get to the control room, to get video edited and on the air, to get in the anchors' ear to instruct them where we were going next. I was no longer focused on making sure my fiance was out of the city, and somewhere safe and accessible to a major highway if another attack hit.
I was alone, in my thoughts. With Chuck Schumer. (He wasn't in my room. That would be newsworthy in and of itself.) He was on the television. And it was then I finally broke down and cried. Cried like you read about. Pounding fists and feet on the bed, screaming, kicking, coughing, choking. All thanks to Chuck Schumer, of all people.
I composed myself, wiped my face, put on a hat, and got dressed. I walked back to the station and into the newsroom. Without saying a word to anyone, I sat at my desk, and logged on to the computer. My executive producer immediately spotted me and asked, "What are you doing here?" It was 8pm. At that point, some friends of mine had gathered around my desk and had joined the conversation.
"I couldn't fall back asleep," I admitted, "... because... Chuck Schumer made me cry."
Finally seeing my future wife for the first time after the towers fell? No tears. Witnessing one of my anchors almost break down live on the air after she finally heard from her son who had been attending school right across from the World Trade Center? Nope. Watching the families of the victims pleading for help live on the air, and knowing we knew just as little as they did? No tears. Chuck Schumer. He made me cry. Senator, orator, heartbreaker. You just never know when it's going to hit you.
We heal and remember. It's been ok to laugh for a long time, but it's still ok to cry.
A version of this post originally appeared last year on Barista Kids.